Sharing Love

今日的軒源媽媽（林太，長椅左），在保良局鄭翼之中心與斌Sir（陳衍斌助理經理）、洪姑娘（洪婉蓉社工）談笑緬懷。林太信中「進步良多」四字承載著的，就是足足二十年的汗水眼淚、起承轉合。   自閉症是一道隔閡，分隔了軒源的內心與外在世界，攔阻彼此的感受交流。隨著軒源踏入青春期，內心湧動情緒急欲表達，就接連出現推倒電視、拍打他人的發泄攻擊行為。軒源的突發行為與日俱增，父母疲於奔命，也無可避免影響到專注備試的兄長，轉移暫宿就成為無可避免的選擇。   「我將軒源帶到這世界，卻不能給予他正常的家庭生活和關愛，作為母親，這是一輩子的愧疚。」   林太曾經如此感受，如此寫下。洪姑娘與斌Sir都記得，經歷三年醫院精神病房生活，初轉至鄭翼之中心的軒源也有著推人扯髮等攻擊行為，情緒陰晴不定。但當軒源初見寬敞的課室設施、花園環境，職員與年紀相仿的同儕……這些前所未見的事物令他心生好奇，在中心同事的教育照顧下，軒源的表現亦開始漸見穩定。   今日的軒源，偶爾也會有脾氣與突發行為，但只要中心同事介入導引，不久就能平復冷靜。軒源溝通能力的進步與當初相比，更是不可同日而語——   從一開始封閉自我於內心世界，斌Sir就回想軒源有一次提起紙筆主動抄寫汽水機上「Orange」字樣，見證他對外界漸生好奇；今天軒源會離開房間踏足客廳，主動與同學一同看電視劇集，甚至成了Hotcha、糖妹的忠心粉絲；而最令洪姑娘欣喜的，莫過於軒源今日更懂得照顧他人，投入集體活動，甚至有同學會喚他作「阿哥」。   「雖然他不善表達，但也一樣有喜怒哀樂，教導軒源不重在經驗，請待他以真，相信軒源會感受到的。」   今日林太與家人都會定期探訪軒源，回想過往一同生活的片段，她十分清楚：「軒源雖不擅表達，但內心是很愛錫我們的。」往日軒源一聽到嫲嫲的腳步聲就會跑來擁抱：現今每週一次的探訪環節，他依然表現出滿心雀躍期待。   手握感謝信，林太與斌Sir、洪姑娘再次感謝彼此的耐心、努力與信任。或者軒源未必能夠將「愛」與「多謝」宣之於口，他的步伐，他的笑顏，未必需要事事說白，看見軒源的生命改變，他們已經心有答案。

Every Saturday morning, Lawyer Wong takes the time to visit the children, playing and interacting with them, and even preparing snacks for them. “I’ve always felt very fortunate in my studies, work, and family, so I want to give back to society and bring happiness and warmth to the children!”   Lawyer Wong's connection with the children at Po Leung Kuk began in 2019. Initially, she learned about volunteer activities involving visits and interactions with children through a member newsletter from the Hong Kong Law Society. During that event, staff from Po Leung Kuk informed her about the facilities, programs, and sponsorship details. Lawyer Wong found the program meaningful and decided to become a sponsor, hoping to improve the children’s living environment and provide them with opportunities to participate in various extracurricular activities.   After completing training for sponsors, she officially began visiting the sponsored children. Although the COVID-19 pandemic caused multiple delays in visitations, it did not deter her compassionate spirit. She expressed that she enjoys every visit, fully engaging with the children, saying, “Whatever the children want to play, I play along with them, even if it’s in the garden.” She also keeps track of each child’s interests, personalities, and memories to make future visits more familiar and enjoyable.   “I remember on my first visit to one child, he asked if he could hug me.” Unfortunately, due to visitation rules prohibiting close contact, Lawyer Wong couldn’t give him a hug. However, that experience deeply moved her, highlighting the children's need for love and care. With a heart full of compassion, Lawyer Wong hopes to reach out to and visit even more children, bringing them joy. Thus, she decided to “expand her family” by increasing her sponsorship from 5 to a total of 12 children. “I hope that in the brief hour of our visit, the children can have fun and find a different experience in their daily lives at the facility; I also want them to feel that there are many people in society who care about and love them.”

高韻雯（KoKo）在9個月大的時候，因發燒而患上大腦麻痺症，自此嚴重影響其身體協調和語言能力，需要長期坐輪椅，但無損她對藝術的熱誠。Koko花了許多時間和毅力執起畫筆，透過畫作與世界連接，成立屬於自己的畫廊，更當上了香港展能藝術家。   KoKo自小已很喜歡拿各種顏料來玩，十多年前才正式跟隨老師學畫畫，從此就沉醉在繪畫世界。KoKo的畫畫過程，一點都不容易，因為她的肌肉張力異常，四肢間中出現不協調和痙攣，以致影響活動能力，於是她便從較易控制的塑膠彩學起。她每天用上許多時間和毅力握著手上的畫筆，開始在畫布上畫畫的日子，表達心裡面的情感和意念，讓她的「生命畫布」增添豐富的色彩。   保良局嚴重肢體傷殘人士綜合支援服務物理治療師左棟樑（Alex）分享，「其實畫畫的動作非常複雜，需要大小肌肉的協調，Koko的手指和手腕的關節僵硬，容易脫臼，需要持續接受物理治療，故我們會定期上門為她進行拉筋訓練，希望減少關節攣縮，維持其四肢活動能力，助她繼續拿起畫筆。」   即使Koko四肢嚴重攣縮，其身體的限制沒有阻礙Koko對藝術創作的渴求。「每一次訓練，KoKo都總是面帶微笑，即使有時身體狀況不佳，手部的肌肉和筋鍵特別繃緊，她都會樂觀地嘗試和練習，只因這是她與世界連接的重要媒介之一。記得剛認識Koko時，由於她難以用語言表達，所以每次訓練時只能作簡單交流或是透過照顧者了解她的感受，後來我就從她的畫作打開話匣子，從中也能了解她的內心世界和想法。」   KoKo喜歡創作各類型畫作，家中亦擺放了不少作品。在這十多年來的藝術創作路上，她成為了香港展能藝術家，更成立屬於自己的「思情畫意畫廊」，希望帶出「畫畫人及看畫人要用心思考畫」的意思。KoKo又將畫畫心路歷程和作品結集成書，藉此告訴大家，即使遇上任何問題也不用害怕，只要肯堅持，總有解決的辦法，正如書中所言：「一幅畫布，既是張白布，同時也是個有待發現、有待創造的新世界。畫布是她與世界溝通的重要媒介之一，也是記錄生活上喜怒哀樂的寒暑表。」